A Hampshire garden border with tulips and spring flowers

Flowers, borders & lessons from experience

South coast UK · Growing zone 8/9

A little chaos is just what I need

I'm Alexandra — a finance manager by day, chaos gardener by heart. In my 80-square-metre patch in Emsworth, Hampshire, I've spent seven years turning a bare, square plot into a tranquil woodland corner brimming with colour.

I grew up in Sweden, where midsummer wildflowers and my grandmother's kitchen garden first planted the seed. Now I grow dahlias, sweet peas, roses and far too many tulips — all self-taught through trial, error, and a fair bit of optimism.

"My garden reflects my life: busy, colourful, sometimes full of surprises, and always evolving."
Alexandra Oakley in her Hampshire garden
Location
Emsworth
Hampshire, south coast
Style
Modern Chaos
Cottage meets woodland
Garden Size
80 m²
West-facing, clay soil
Growing
7 Years
& still going

What I Grow

A cottage gardener's collection — heavy on pinks, purples, and anything that makes you stop and stare.

Dahlias

The summer showstoppers. Grown from both tubers and seed, they fill the borders from July until the first frost.

Cafe au Lait · Thomas A Edison · Le Baron · Collarette varieties

Sweet Peas

An annual tradition. A whole wall of sweet peas climbs the fence every summer, filling the garden with scent and colour.

Shell Pink · King's Ransom · Spring Sunshine Champagne

Roses

A devoted David Austin collector. Each rose was chosen for scent and romance, planted where they can be admired from the patio.

Gertrude Jekyll · Gabriel Oak · Princess Alexandra of Kent · Queen of Sweden

Tulips

Spring's main event. An ever-growing collection of varieties fills pots and borders with every shade of pink, peach and plum.

Belle Epoque · Finola · Copper Image · Princess Irene · Black Hero

Spring Bulbs

Crocuses, daffodils and hyacinths — layered in bulb lasagnes and tucked into every available pot for the earliest colour of the year.

Pickwick crocus · Bulb lasagnes · Daffodils · Hyacinths

Japanese Anemones

The unsung late-summer heroes. Reliable, elegant, and impossible to beat for a graceful end to the season.

White & pink varieties · Late summer · Low maintenance
Tulips and spring flowers in terracotta pots on a Hampshire patio

"A tranquil but slightly chaotic woodland garden full of colour"

Lessons & Guides

Real advice from seven years of trial, error, and the occasional triumph.

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